LOVE AND HATE

When you say you hate somebody, what is it in you that you find so unlovable, untenable, so grief stricken that you say you hate another sentient being, that you project your grief onto another sentient being in such a way?

Hatred stands as one of the most complex and enigmatic, of human emotions, driven by fear and entirely underpinned by grief. It’s a sentiment that often perplexes both the subject and the object, leaving trails of destruction in its wake. Yet, amidst its seemingly impenetrable fog, lies a poignant question: What drives one to utter those piercing words, "I hate you"?

At its core, hatred is not merely directed outward but reflects an inward turmoil. When we proclaim hatred towards another, we inadvertently unveil our own vulnerabilities and insecurities. It's a mirror reflecting the aspects of ourselves that we find difficult to confront, the shadows we'd rather keep hidden in the depths of our psyche.

Consider for a moment the emotions that precede the proclamation of hatred. Is it not often rooted in feelings of inadequacy, betrayal, or fear, unloved, untenable grief? When someone triggers such intense animosity within us, it's not due to their actions so much, but mostly because they awaken dormant demons within ourselves. Their existence becomes a stark reminder of our own shortcomings, igniting a self-reproach that manifests as hatred towards them.

Moreover, hatred can also stem from a profound sense of grief. When we lose someone or something dear to us, whether through death, separation, or betrayal, the pain can transmute into bitterness and resentment. In our desperate attempt to alleviate this anguish, we may redirect our anguish towards the perceived source of our suffering, masking our grief with the cloak of hatred.

Yet, despite its destructive nature, hatred can serve as a catalyst for self-reflection and growth. By acknowledging the roots of our animosity, we embark on a journey of introspection, unraveling the tangled threads of our psyche. Through this process, we gain insight into our deepest fears, insecurities, and unresolved traumas, paving the way for healing and reconciliation.

In essence, when we confront the abyss of hatred, the grief we are confronted with is the fragmented pieces of our own selves. It's a sobering reminder of our humanity, our capacity for both love and darkness. Instead of succumbing to the allure of hatred, let us strive to understand its origins within ourselves. For in doing so, we not only transcend our own limitations but also cultivate compassion and empathy towards others, transforming the darkness into light.

So, the next time you find yourself wanting to utter those fateful words, if you get a chance, pause and reflect on the true source of your animosity. Buried beneath the layers of resentment, lies an opportunity for profound self-discovery and healing, and a return to your inherent nature, that of a love beyond measure.

LOVE - LOVE - LOVE - LOVE